Questions about baby mama drama and his family, future Questions the child might ask...?

First learn proper english.They were together not was together.Second he's only 1,you have a while before he asks questions like that.And its not we have a handsome 1 year old boy.If I was her I would hate for someone I don't even know who is in no way related to my child to refer to my child as theirs.He was created b4 you were even with him.And if his child wants to ask were he came from just tell him his mom and dad met in a bar one night,and had sex and had him.Point blank.No need to sugar code it because eventually he will know that he was not a product of a loving or faith full relationship.And I think it is kinda cheap for her to go asking his family for stuff.What a skank.They are not responsible for taking care of her child.Your husband and her are responsible.Also since they are so close now,somehow, there is pretty much nothing you can do about that.You can't make ruin their relationship with her so forget about it.And trust me when you tell him at 5 or a young age how he was conceived he will say oh and move on and go play with his toys.He won't care much after that.